With this blog, I hope to use my years of experience preparing meals of all sizes, along with my skills as a photographer, to share with you my take on a modern dinner party. My partner and I are inviting two friends of ours who must bring two of their friends ("You Pick Two") to a personal chef's table in our Washington, DC rowhouse. The blog will detail my preparations, table settings, ideas, and recipes - as well as the people and conversations - from these events.
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
My Best of 2014
I am a huge fan of lists and rankings (especially the year-end ones). A symptom, no doubt, of my mind's natural bent towards science and analysis in general. So while others have been posting about their favorites from the past year, I thought I would try a list related to the best (and worst) food and drink I had in 2014. Overall it was a good year in, but not a truly memorable one eating out. I just seem to remember more great meals during our travels in 2013.
Favorite meal out:
Cafe Heaven, Provincetown, MA. I can't remember exactly what I ate, but I remember loving the whole experience: including the wine, the company, and the food. It's one of my favorite spots in the United States and just represents everything I feel about how food should be prepared and served. If you ever make it to P'town, try breakfast or dinner there, I guarantee it won't disappoint.
Honorable mentions:
Jakes in Palm Springs, CA. The food is very traditional Californian but done extremely well. It's also an institution in Palm Springs, which made the experience very unique and fun.
Alphonse Italian Osteria, Washington, DC. Totally surprised by this place, the food was a step above the red-and-white checkered tablecloth Italian-American eateries (which I love for different reasons) you find in most cities. When you go, sit at the bar, and just ask for Justice (Justus?). Seriously, if she is working just ask her what to drink and eat. She steered our party into directions we never would have gone on our own. She made the experience a hundred times better.
Favorite meal in:
The Middle Eastern meal I did for our second You Pick Two in January. It took a little over two days to make all the food, which is a lot I realize. But the entire meal, company and guests included, was worth all of it.
Favorite thing I cooked:
The strangozzi in tomato bacon sauce I made for our Umbrian You Pick Two dinner. I also made it again in September with my mother when my parents visited - one of my favorite moments in 2014. The fresh pasta takes a little time, but on a lazy afternoon it's the perfect thing to make.
Favorite sandwich:
BBB at Deli Board, San Francisco, CA. Hands down the best sandwich I have had in years. The bread was soft, the meat was tender, and the accompanying sauce was amazing. And this coming from someone who doesn't care for aioli or mayo very much at all. Highly recommend this place if you get a chance while in San Francisco.
Most disappointing meal out:
Birba, Palm Springs, CA. Between the reviews I read, the online menu I looked at, and the photos I saw, I was really excited to eat here. But with the rude service we experienced (we waited 15 minutes for a server to come to our table), the live band BLARING jazz the entire meal (making it impossible to have any conversation), and the so-so food, this was easily the most disappointing dining experience I had all year. Save your time and just go straight to Tropicale.
Honorable mention:
Doi Moi, Washington, DC. I went here in 2013, soon after it opened, with my sister and parents and had a fantastic dining experience and meal, one of the best of 2013. The server was amazing, answering all of our questions and providing great recommendations, and the food was light, spicy, and very well done. I went back this year and had the complete opposite experience: rude server and mediocre food. I wonder what happened? On the plus side, the dining room is still a beautifully decorated place.
Favorite beer:
Stiegl Radler. I realize most beer experts and purists will scoff at me for picking this since it's mostly fruit juice with some beer in it, but please hear me out on this one. Mixing the radler with some hefeweizen and sipping it on the fantastic outdoor patio of the Dacha beer garden several summer afternoons in 2014 made this my favorite. Dacha eventually became overrun by the end of the season, but those afternoons in June were some of my favorite times in the last few years here in DC.
Favorite wine:
Iron Horse Winter cuvee. Yes, it's a sparkling wine but frankly this vineyard is just amazing. It's located west of Napa/Sonoma and has none of the corporate, "what's it going to take to put you in this wine," vibe of Napa. The tasting area is outdoors with a spectacular view of the vineyard. And, frankly, all of the wines (sparkling and otherwise) were fantastic - this one just had a unique flavor to it I have never had in a sparkling wine before.
Favorite cocktail:
The Orange Crush at Bar Charley, Washington, DC. Yes, it was served in a plastic cup, but it tasted so good on a warm, Sunday afternoon brunch that Kevin and I went to over the Labor Day weekend. It literally tasted like a more balanced, less sweet version of an orange cream soda. Their cocktail menu is seasonal, hopefully they bring it back next summer.
Honorable mention:
This cider punch Kevin made for Thanksgiving. It was the perfect accompaniment to our Thanksgiving meal. And from what I understand, it was easy to make too.
Happy New Year everyone! Wishing you the best in 2015!
Monday, November 24, 2014
#8: A Mexican Fiesta
So it's been a bit since our last You Pick Two event, but I don't want that to reflect on the dinner and guests in any way. It was a wonderful meal with some of our oldest and closest friends - but sometimes work and life get in the way of things you enjoy most. And I really enjoy doing these dinners and writing this blog. Amazingly, it's actually been one year since I started doing this! Time does truly fly by. It seems like I just started out, but eight dinners, one Thanksgiving, and a giant holiday party later, here we are...
We have been trying to get this dinner scheduled with our friends Amy and Mike for quite some time. Kevin and I both have a long, rewarding, and meaningful friendship with Amy and Mike (separately and together) - in fact, it was actually Kevin who introduced them to each other. They have been together for almost as long as Kevin and I and have been married since 2005. They have two remarkably sweet and wonderful kids named Sam and Elena. As you can imagine trying to schedule a dinner on a random Saturday can be quite difficult when the guests have two young kids that are very active and when they live in Fairfax. Not to mention, the mystery guests they wanted to bring also have children and the husband travels for work quite a bit. Luckily, the end of September worked for everyone and we got to hang out (sans children) with Amy and Mike and our new friends Paula and Jason.
So with the date all set, what should we do for the dinner? I have known Amy for many years and I have known about her strong allergies to tree nuts (along with some other foods), but her sensitivity to gluten is relatively new and presented a great opportunity for me to try a gluten-free meal. I should also point out that Amy's allergies have made me very aware of how difficult it can be for someone who is literally deathly allergic to eat out. I've watched some servers essentially ignore her questions and not check with the chef about certain items. I think one of the reasons this happens is that people lie when they say they are allergic to things that they simply don't like to eat; so think twice next time you do that at a restaurant because it can de-sensitize an establishment to legitimate, life-threatening allergies. Ok hopping off my soapbox now...
After some research and thought, one cuisine that seemed to be surprisingly gluten-free (at least to me) was Mexican food. I grew up in Worcester, Massachusetts, where my idea of Mexican food as a kid consisted mostly of Old El Paso taco kits or, even worse, Taco Bell. There were not many authentic Mexican restaurants in central Mass. Thankfully, my adult self has experienced authentic Mexican cuisine and through the advent of food television I have been able to discover the enormous diversity of Mexican food. I could probably do seven or eight You Pick Two dinners alone on various regional specialties of Mexican food. However, I instead cautiously dipped my toe into Mexican food here with a broad selection of many well-known Mexican dishes. For this meal, I made my own corn tortillas and salsas, pulled together a mole poblano, and found one of the easiest (and most delicious) ways to cook pinto beans you can imagine. I picked the mole since I was really interested in exposing my guests to something different and I wanted Amy to be able to try it in a safe place, since mole sauces traditionally contain dozens of ingredients and a lot of tree nuts.
Amy and Mike brought two wonderful people to the dinner in Paula and Jason. Jason works for USAID as a manager on the civilian (non-foreign service) side and spends a lot of time in southeast Asia. Paula took a break from her career as a pharmaceuticals rep to raise their two children and her love of animals was a big hit with Kev and I (they also have a big dog). As you might imagine, Buck got along quite well with both of them over the evening. Amy and Paula met each other at the pre-school that both their kids happen to attend. Paula is also a native of northeastern New Jersey and gave Kevin and I the hard sell on moving up there (we may eventually have to move there for Kev's work). The night's conversation was lively with discussions about pets, kids, work, and respective hobbies. Kev's new bowling ball even made a late appearance before our guests departed. It was a great night and it was a pleasure to host them and cook this Mexican fiesta.
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A rustic and casual table for our dinner. |
We have been trying to get this dinner scheduled with our friends Amy and Mike for quite some time. Kevin and I both have a long, rewarding, and meaningful friendship with Amy and Mike (separately and together) - in fact, it was actually Kevin who introduced them to each other. They have been together for almost as long as Kevin and I and have been married since 2005. They have two remarkably sweet and wonderful kids named Sam and Elena. As you can imagine trying to schedule a dinner on a random Saturday can be quite difficult when the guests have two young kids that are very active and when they live in Fairfax. Not to mention, the mystery guests they wanted to bring also have children and the husband travels for work quite a bit. Luckily, the end of September worked for everyone and we got to hang out (sans children) with Amy and Mike and our new friends Paula and Jason.
So with the date all set, what should we do for the dinner? I have known Amy for many years and I have known about her strong allergies to tree nuts (along with some other foods), but her sensitivity to gluten is relatively new and presented a great opportunity for me to try a gluten-free meal. I should also point out that Amy's allergies have made me very aware of how difficult it can be for someone who is literally deathly allergic to eat out. I've watched some servers essentially ignore her questions and not check with the chef about certain items. I think one of the reasons this happens is that people lie when they say they are allergic to things that they simply don't like to eat; so think twice next time you do that at a restaurant because it can de-sensitize an establishment to legitimate, life-threatening allergies. Ok hopping off my soapbox now...
After some research and thought, one cuisine that seemed to be surprisingly gluten-free (at least to me) was Mexican food. I grew up in Worcester, Massachusetts, where my idea of Mexican food as a kid consisted mostly of Old El Paso taco kits or, even worse, Taco Bell. There were not many authentic Mexican restaurants in central Mass. Thankfully, my adult self has experienced authentic Mexican cuisine and through the advent of food television I have been able to discover the enormous diversity of Mexican food. I could probably do seven or eight You Pick Two dinners alone on various regional specialties of Mexican food. However, I instead cautiously dipped my toe into Mexican food here with a broad selection of many well-known Mexican dishes. For this meal, I made my own corn tortillas and salsas, pulled together a mole poblano, and found one of the easiest (and most delicious) ways to cook pinto beans you can imagine. I picked the mole since I was really interested in exposing my guests to something different and I wanted Amy to be able to try it in a safe place, since mole sauces traditionally contain dozens of ingredients and a lot of tree nuts.
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Our guests, starting at top left are Amy, Mike, Paula, and Jason. Kev and Buck need no introduction :) |
Amy and Mike brought two wonderful people to the dinner in Paula and Jason. Jason works for USAID as a manager on the civilian (non-foreign service) side and spends a lot of time in southeast Asia. Paula took a break from her career as a pharmaceuticals rep to raise their two children and her love of animals was a big hit with Kev and I (they also have a big dog). As you might imagine, Buck got along quite well with both of them over the evening. Amy and Paula met each other at the pre-school that both their kids happen to attend. Paula is also a native of northeastern New Jersey and gave Kevin and I the hard sell on moving up there (we may eventually have to move there for Kev's work). The night's conversation was lively with discussions about pets, kids, work, and respective hobbies. Kev's new bowling ball even made a late appearance before our guests departed. It was a great night and it was a pleasure to host them and cook this Mexican fiesta.
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A Mexican Fiesta
September 27, 2014
Cocktail
The Independent
Blanco
tequila, lime, agave nectar, sparkling wine
Appetizer
Chips and salsa
Salsa roja (tomato & chile),
Salsa verde (green tomatillo)
Main
Tacos de carne asada
Grilled skirt steak, homemade corn
tortillas, salsa verde
Pollo en mole poblano
Chicken with Puebla-style mole sauce
Frijoles de Ollo
Stewed pinto beans, crema, queso
Oaxaca
Sweet
Vanilla pavlova with Mexican chocolate sauce
Marshmallow cake, whipped cream, dark
chocolate, spices
Guests
Amy and Mike Baglivio
Paula and Jason Foley
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
#7: A Celebration of Summer
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The table setting with a red, white, and blue theme for summer. |
My cooking inspirations are my mother, my grandmothers, and Nigella Lawson, in that order. Their goals were to pass on old family recipes, bring their friends and families together, and feed them. For my family, meals are a way to stay in touch but they also serve to keep its members healthy, nourished, and occasionally spoiled. Maybe it's the publications I read, or the twitter feeds I follow, but the obsession over food porn, designer spaces, food "competition" shows, and rock star chefs, has diluted and confused what I thought cooking was about. To me, why I began this blog and why I spend so much time in the kitchen is because I love good food and I love making my family and friends happy. Nigella once said that in French cooking, attention is drawn to the chef, whereas in Italian cooking, the attention is drawn to the food. And I feel that is such a relevant remark these days, I feel that almost all aspects around food now are meant to draw attention to the chef. That doesn't mean most of these chefs and restaurants don't deserve praise, in fact they absolutely do! They make incredible dishes and their restaurant employees work incredibly hard to put it all together for the public. But in the end it's not about who is the "best" to me. In the end, I want people to enjoy the food I make and the company around them. I don't want to exclude anyone and I don't want to make anyone feel lucky that they are eating my food. Luckily, like all food trends, this one will soon pass, much like how carved out watermelons were used as serving vessels back in the 70's. So, I am hopeful that once again in the city I live, and other big cities, restaurants come back to earth and just make great food again without all the fanfare.
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Our guests (from left to right in back): Clark, Anne, and Torao, with my husband Kevin in front. |
Conversation that night veered all over the place, in a fun way. We talked about the pageant, our first jobs and the unusual arcs our careers have taken sometimes (Clark after assisting at a psychiatric hospital right out of college eventually got a master's degree in dance and was a professional dancer), and working with the millennial generation (the "M" word as Clark calls it). Thankfully, Kevin's drink that night (a long-cherished Barefoot Contessa recipe for Long Island iced teas) kept the buzz going and the talk lively for most of the evening. It was a great night and I hope that an invitation to their supper club is in the mail soon.
For the food: the Nutella ice cream came from the NYT's recent master ice cream recipe (which is epic and amazing), here is the recipe for those Long Island iced teas (my favorite drink really), and for Nigella's Union Square Cafe nuts (which are perfect for a summer snack). I will post some of the other recipes that I developed for that night over the next couple weeks. In the meantime, enjoy and keep on cooking.
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A Celebration of
Summer
August 23, 2014
Cocktail
Long Island iced tea
Mixed
liquors, simple syrup, lemon juice, cola
Appetizer
Spicy grilled shrimp
Cilantro dipping sauce
Union Square Café bar nuts
Mixed roasted nuts, cayenne pepper,
brown sugar, rosemary
Main
Grilled pork loin
Guava-mustard glaze, orange-habanero
mojo
Cheesy corn pudding
Local sweet corn, grueyere cheese
Grilled broccolini
Lemon zest, parmesan
Sweet
Ice cream sundae
Homemade Nutella ice cream, organic
vanilla ice cream, chocolate ganache, toasted walnuts
Guests
Clark Ebbert
Torao Kubo
Anne Steinecke
Sharon Groves
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
A delicious (and easy) summer dessert.
As summer begins to unfortunately wind down, it's time to take advantage of those last few harvests of fresh fruit at the farmer's markets. To that end, I submit to you one of my favorite (and easiest to make) fruit desserts, an individual peach cobbler. It was the big hit at our last You Pick Two dinner and I have made it a few times since then for company. I adapted it from a Martha Stewart recipe I discovered over 10 years ago.
These individual servings of golden deliciousness need only a scoop of cold vanilla ice cream or a dollop of whip cream to finish them off. Although frankly they could be eaten without any adornment and still taste fantastic. This is also a flexible recipe, feel free to substitute other fruits that you prefer - just be aware fruits like blackberries and raspberries can give off more liquid than peaches and you may need to add a little more flour. To cook the cobbler, you will need about eight 8-oz ramekins. You could also make them in four large soufflé dishes, just add a few more minutes of cooking time. Regardless, make sure to put a piece of parchment under the ramekins to keep any sugary liquid or batter that overflows from becoming a permanent part of your baking sheet.
Cup O'Cobbler
Ingredients
4-5 ripe peaches, pitted and sliced (about 4 to 5 cups)
1/4 cup bourbon
1 cup granulated sugar
1 stick of unsalted butter
1 cup of all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons of baking powder
1/2 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
pinch of salt
1 cup of whole milk
Directions
1. Pit and slice the peaches. In a large bowl combine the peaches, 1/4 cup of the sugar, and the bourbon. Stir to combine and let sit for at least 15 minutes, and up to 2 hours.
2. When ready to bake, preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line a large baking sheet with parchment and place the ramekins on the parchment-lined pan. Place 1 tablespoon of butter in the bottom of each ramekin. Transfer to the oven until the butter is melted and bubbling, about 5 to 7 minutes.
3. Meanwhile, in a medium bowl, whisk together the remaining 3/4 cup of sugar, the flour, the baking powder, the nutmeg, and the salt. Add the milk slowly, whisking as you go, until completely combined.
4. Remove the ramekins from the oven. Divide the batter evenly among the hot ramekins. Spoon an equal amount of peach slices (and some juice) into the center of each ramekin, keeping a small outer edge of batter.
5. Return to the oven and bake until the tops of the cobblers are golden brown, or about 1 hour.
Monday, July 21, 2014
#6: A Vegetarian Takeover
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Beautiful weather allowed us to dine al fresco. |
I feel that eggplants get a terrible reputation because they are usually prepared one of two ways: fried (and usually greasy) or cooked in a heavy sauce (and therefore quite mushy). I think eggplant works best when grilled and I wanted to revisit a recipe from Nigella's breakthrough book, Nigella Bites, that I made many years ago. It is a type of involtini, which is an italian word for a small bite of food consisting of some outer layer wrapped around a filling. In this dish, sliced eggplant is grilled, stuffed, and cooked in a sauce. For this preparation, the stuffing included bulgar wheat, feta, pistachios, and herbs. It came out great and the eggplant-haters ate and enjoyed it. Rounding out the night's menu were a crostini with homemade ricotta (which is surprisingly easy), a chilled tomatillo-advocado soup, an asparagus-gruyere tart, and a risotto made with barley instead of rice. I tried to avoid pasta because I feel like a lot of menus just resort to pasta for vegetarians. Dessert was a summer favorite of mine, peach cobbler. Everyone enjoyed the food, but I think the barley risotto and peach cobbler were the stars of the night. So who were the guests?
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Crostini with homemade ricotta and caramelized onions for the first course. |
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Homemade ricotta after being drained and chilled in cheesecloth. |
MENU
Vegetarian Takeover
Appetizer
Crostini with ricotta and caramelized onions
Homemade ricotta, lemon zest, thyme-balsamic
glazed onions
First Course
Chilled avocado-tomatillo soup with lime
Roasted tomatillos and peppers, Haas
avocado,
organic sour cream, lime/mint garnish
Main
Soft & sharp eggplant involtini
Grilled eggplant, bulgur
wheat-pistachio stuffing, feta, tomato sauce
Asparagus and gruyere tart
Puff pastry, grilled asparagus, gruyere
& parmesan
Barley risotto with spinach and herb puree
Toasted barley, fresh herbs, spinach,
lemon, parmesan
Sweet
Peach cobbler
Peaches, organic vanilla bean ice
cream
Guests
Nevena Minor
Sam Puffenbarger
Cat Sacks
Andy Ward
Thursday, June 26, 2014
Strudel, but not for your toaster.
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The finished dish. |
Cabbage-Wrapped-Chicken Strudel
Ingredients
8 large cabbage leaves (use either green cabbage or Savoy cabbage if you can find it)
5 skinless, boneless chicken breasts
2 ice cubes
2 cups heavy cream
24 frozen phyllo sheets, thawed (if they are the very large sheets, use only 12)
6 tablespoons unsalted butter (clarified, unsalted butter if you have it)
salt
pepper
Preparation
1. Prepare the cabbage leaves: bring a large pot of water to boil, add a tablespoon of salt. Fill a large bowl with ice water. Add the cabbage leaves 1 or 2 at a time to the boiling water for a couple minutes, then put them in the ice water. Once all leaves have been blanched, lay them out on some paper towels and pat them dry. If the center rib of the leaf is really thick, remove it.
2. Prepare the mousse: place a medium bowl inside a large bowl filled with ice water. Cut 1 chicken breast into 1-inch cubes and add to a food processor, season with a 1/2 teaspoon of salt and several grinds of fresh black pepper, then add the ice cubes. Pulse the processor for at least 30 seconds or until the mixture is well chopped (could be up to a minute depending on your device). Then, turn the processor on and gradually add the cream through the funnel. Keep adding the cream until the mixture turns a light pink and has thickened to a mousse. Scoop the mousse out into the small bowl that is in the large bowl with ice water, or put the bowl in the fridge to keep the mousse from separating.
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Finished mousse should look like this, pale pink and thick. |
4. Prepare the chicken strudel: Preheat the oven to 450 degrees. Line a baking sheet with parchment. Take 1 sheet of the phyllo, brush with the melted butter. Repeat with 5 more sheets, stacking them as you go.
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Kevin brushing the cut phyllo sheets with clarified butter. |
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Place the cabbage-wrapped breasts on the stacks and fold over until you reach the end. |
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These are ready for the oven. |
Friday, May 30, 2014
Spaetzle!
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The finished dish. |
Making the spaetzle itself was actually quite fun and confidence boosting. The basic process is make a dough, let it rest a bit, then press the dough through large holes in a colander to make them rain down into said pan of gently boiling water to cook for a bit. Then scoop out the cooked dumplings to a large bowl of ice water before draining them in a colander. Boom. Done.
Chef Kurt Gutenbrunner's recipe that I used for this dinner is called "quark spaetzle" - with quark being a creamy to slightly firm cheese found in lots of central and eastern European cooking. Unfortunately, my Harris Teeter doesn't carry quark, but it does carry many varieties of greek yogurt which the chef recommended as a substitute. The resulting spaetzle was light with a nice chew. Frankly, this dish could easily serve as a main course with a salad, or grilled asparagus, or sauteed carrots served alongside. But these dinners are meant to be over the top, so it served as the first course.
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Cooked spaetzle after it has been drained. |
Like I said, spaetzle can be served in a variety of ways. For my dinner, I sauteed mushrooms, brussel sprout leaves, corn and peas in some butter and herbs in a large saute pan before adding a little cream to make a sauce (the recipe is also in the book). I formed and cooked the spaetzle earlier in the day, adding a couple tablespoons of oil to the drained spaetzle, mixing about, and then chilling them in the fridge. The spaetzle will keep up to two days in the fridge, if properly covered. However, you could also just add the spaetzle directly to the sauce after you poach and drain them, if that works better for you. So, here we go:
Spaetzle with a white corn, brussel sprouts, mushrooms, peas, and tarragon cream sauce*
Serves 4 as a main course, 6 as a first course
Ingredients
1/2 teaspoon salt
several grinds of fresh ground black pepper
2 cups all-purpose flour
1/8 tsp nutmeg, freshly grated
2 large eggs, lightly beaten
1 cup quark cheese (I substituted a 7 oz. container of 2% Fage greek yogurt)
1/3 cup heavy cream
Directions
1. Bring a large saucepan of salted water to a boil. Meanwhile, in a large bowl, whisk the flour with 1/2 teaspoon of salt, 1/4 teaspoon of pepper, and the nutmeg.
2. Add the eggs, quark (greek yogurt), and cream and beat until smooth. It should easily form a large ball of dough, if still dry add a couple tablespoons of cream till it comes together. Let the dough rest for about 15 minutes before proceeding with the next steps.
3. Fill a large bowl with ice water. Working in batches, press the dough through a colander with large holes using a rubber spatula into the boiling water. I ended up using a draining ladle that I had, otherwise use a spaetzle maker.
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Pressing the spaetzle dough through my makeshift maker. |
5. Serve with your sauce of choice or saute the drained spaetzle in a couple tablespoons of butter until golden brown.
*Adapted from Neue Cuisine by Kurt Gutenbrunner
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